Monday, May 21, 2012

Mother's Day

I didn't get to give a shout out to all the mommies out there!  Happy Mother's Day - a little late!!

I was lucky to have my mom here the three weeks leading up to Mother's Day.  She left a day before.  Here are all the girls Alex had to put up with as the solo male in the house.






Mother's Day is such a sweet day.  All of my girls brought home their handmade crafts from school.  The little girls couldn't wait for Sunday and were bursting with pride as they removed their gifts from their backpacks.  It is all so sweet.  I really am so darn lucky.  I could go on and on but I figure I feel the same way that most mother's feel about their children.  Although, I like to think that I have something special and unique :)

What was absolutely special and unique was a simple gift from my big girl.  This gift wasn't prompted by a school project but cultivated in the depths of her loving, heart.  Savannah is wise beyond her years and has a special way of understanding life from other people's perspectives.  She just gets it.  She gets me. 

This is what she gave me wrapped up in a homemade duck tape key holder. . . does anyone else have a little girl that has bought into this duck taping fad??

This is what made me cry.  This is what hit the nail on the head.  This is what every mother needs to hear.


After reading my note, Savannah further clarified her thoughts.

"Mommy, the reason I gave you such a tiny and fragile sand dollar is because there isn't another one out there just like it in the whole world.  Just like you.  It is also really tiny compared to the rest of the world.  If you feel tiny sometimes because the Earth is such a large place with so many things in it, remember YOU ARE SPECIAL AND MATTER TO ME!  No matter what, you are special to your family.  No matter what, we will always love you."

Mommies, don't we all want to hear something like this?  Don't we all feel unnoticed and undervalued sometimes?

It is so easy for me to question the role I play in my life.  I gave up my job and, therefore, don't contribute financially to my family.  I spend more than half my day playing taxi driver.  I make working out a priority which has an "I'm not spending time with my kids" guilty component.  I can easily be overwhelmed by trying to get dinner to the table while managing homework or afternoon beastliness.  I mean, really!?  Doesn't my day seem so simple, so easy, so neutral and uncomplicated?

Where is that making an impact or difference role that we all need to believe we are playing in our children's lives?  Most days, I know it is there.  I know it because my kids cry when I leave them to go to the grocery store (I should note that Savannah has graduated from opening the floodgates when I leave. She lets me know that she isn't happy about it though).  They want me around THAT much.  They NEED me.  They come yelling my name through the house when I open the door. . . even if I was only gone for a 30 minute run.  But, there are the days when I feel  small, lonely, and without a great deal of purpose.  On those days, I can reach in my pocket and give my little sand dollar a rub.  Because, in this big and crazy world, I matter. . . I am special.  I am loved.  I am needed.

I have proof!  I have a note!

I also have the sweetest eight year old on the planet!   My five year olds are pretty amazing too!


Wednesday, May 16, 2012

3. . . 2. . . 1. . . Blast Off!

We blasted off into space for the last month or so.  We can locate planets in the night sky, give fascinating details about each of our planets and recognize why Earth is the only one that has life.  We had so much fun.  Learning together as a family is priceless.

Mercury. . .
 Venus. . .


Earth. . .


Mars. . .
Jupiter. . .



Saturn. . . 

Uranus. . . 

Neptune. . .


Couldn't quite get it all in the picture.




Astronaut ice cream.  Yummy!
To finish our study of the solar system, we headed to the Air and Space Smithsonian outside of DC.  It was so much better than we expected.  We got to see the Discovery shuttle in person!  To top it off, Tom Jones, a real astronaut who has taken multiple rides into space, gave a fascinating talk.  The girls loved his various home videos of space flight and Savannah got to ask him a question during the Q&A session.  We had an absolute blast. 

Meteorite
 Sadly, this is one of the only pictures I have of Lila.
 Ahh, the real deal (the gloves and boots).  Much heavier than the orange dress up suit.



A favorite!
Another favorite!  They even had the astronaut underwear that has tubing for water which heats or cools astronauts.

Grammy came too!
She talks the talk but was a bit nervous when standing next to the giant shuttle.  Sensory issues still have an ugly grip on my girl. 


Listening to Astronaut Tom. 

Looking out the control tower where we got to see planes land at Dulles. 

If you have a chance, go see it.  You won't be disappointed!


Next up. . . zoo animals.

Friday, May 11, 2012

Grassapillars

We updated our grassapillars this year. In years passed we have used egg cartons. This year, Adeline's class made them out of pantyhose. They mixed grass seed and soil together.  Then, they stuffed it in pantyhose while sectioning them off with hair ties. They turned out really cute and the girls are enjoying their role as hair stylist.



At the Races. . . Again

I posted a lot about our races last fall.  We are back at them again.  The little girls run a quarter mile and Savannah runs a half.  It is still really hard for Adeline to complete her distance.  Lila continues to hang with the back of the pack and Savannah is leading the way.  These races are still very emotional for us.  There was a day that we thought running would never happen and look at my little one pounders now!

Stretching out because racing in Kindergarten is serious business!
At the starting line. . .
During the first race, Lila Grace was looking over her shoulder and yelling back to Adeline with encouraging words.  It was very sweet.  She also flashed her pearly whites every time she passed someone she knew on the side lines.   Do I dare say that she is out for a good time more than she is out for the win. . .

Here is a clip of Lila's finish.





Here is Adeline working hard to cross the finish line. Just like he did in the fall, Mr. Long (race coordinator) is waiting for the last runner in order to give her the most loving high five. This season, he lets Adeline knock him backwards with her strength. She runs the entire race just for that moment. It is absolutely amazing to watch her fight for every step. I am so proud of this girl!






The big news for this season is that Miss Savannah Mae has finished first place in the first two races of the season. She has really matured as a runner and now plays the mental games that all good runners do. She keeps a safe distance ahead but makes sure to leave some in the tank for the end. I remember a year ago when she was at the back of the pack with her arms flailing. What a difference a year, some practice and bunch of determination makes. I am one proud Mama!


Oh, did I mention the Savannah runs a half mile in 3:24!  She beats me.  I know this because I raced her one day and she left me in her dust.

Here she is crossing the finishing in first place. 


Monday, May 7, 2012

Poetry Day


Savannah's class celebrated Poetry Month by inviting parents to a Poetry Day celebration.  It is clear their teacher LOVES poetry.  They have been using poems to reinforce their learning all year long.  There were poems about pumpkins, holidays, bats, soil and much more.  They have read novels written in free verse, studied famous poets, and, best yet, have written many, many poems.

Poetry Day gave each student the opportunity to recite a poem.  To compliment this, the students had poems on display and class book of poems that was given to each family.  As we gathered into the classroom, it became clear that the students had worked very hard to put together such a nice presentation.  Each child was dressed beautifully and sitting quietly while holding still their nervous hands.  After a brief introduction by the teacher, the students took control of the day.  They introduced each other, gave brief overviews of the poems and what learning they represented, and each student recited a poem from memory.  I just couldn't believe that every student knew their poem and didn't need any prompting from the teacher.  They knew when to go up front which prevented those awkward pauses you often see at times like this.  It was flawless.  Honestly, Savannah belongs to the best group of second graders I have ever seen!

Here is my girl reciting her acrostic poem about spring.  It was a beautiful presentation.



Thursday, April 26, 2012

Her New Friend

Believe it or not, this girl is starting to like dogs. Lila snuggled little Lizzie until Lizzie couldn't take it any more.



Daddy's Girls

Long ago, we took Savannah to Daddy's old stomping grounds.  We were such proud, new parents.  
 
(Just in case Krzyzewskiville doesn't give it away, I am referring to Duke.)



We came full circle and took all three while in Durham over Easter. 




There is a little more "girl" going on in our lives now.  Never did we dream that we would be back with three beautiful, sweet and loving girls. Life was good with one girl but it is so much richer and the love runs so much deeper with three. 

P.S.  I am choking back tears after searching through Savannah's baby pictures for the ones above.  She was such a cute and smiley little baby.  I want to hold that little girl all over again!