Occupational Therapy

Our girls are transitioning out of their Early Intervention therapies and entering the Intermediate Unit therapies that start at age three. We are very sad to see our therapists leave. They have become a part of our family. Each week they travel to our home and work with the girls. In the process they have gotten to know the girls, Savannah and myself very well. We all seem to light up when they come!

Adeline spends more time with her OT than any other therapist at moment (1.5hr x week). Dot (her OT) does an amazing job addressing Adeline's fine motor and sensory needs. She works on motor planning, visually scanning the environment, messy play and the use of both hands together. All though the above sounds simple, they are all areas in which Adeline needs much help.

The way in which Dot works with Adeline is simply impossible for me to replicate when by myself. Typically, I have to take Lila out of the room because she interferes with Adeline's activities. In the video below, I was shocked that both Savannah and Lila sat quietly and watched. I also don't have the knowledge base that Dot has with regard to sensory integration and motor planning. She is a fantastic OT and has helped Adeline tremendously. It took us a long time to find someone who could address Adeline's unique needs and I am very hesitant to start with a new OT with our transition to the IU. We will deeply miss her.

I rarely take pictures during a therapy session because it is all I can do to keep the other child from interfering. Because Savannah and Lila were "sitting it out" nicely, I was able to grab the video camera. The video below shows Adeline putting pieces of Mr. Potato head together. She had to work on the dexterity in her finger tips to pull her along the floor, use both hands to put the pieces in all while visually scanning her environment in order to form a motor plan. The activity is great for Adeline's weak core. It is just a sample of what Dot does in order to push Adeline in her development.

Infant Carrier

We pulled out Adeline's old car seat for baby Lucy today. Wow, did that thing ever get some wear. I was trying to remember when Adeline actually gave it up. I looked back through all of the pictures but couldn't figure it out. I am pretty sure it was around 18 months though. The last picture I could find was on her first birthday. Keep in mind that Savannah gave up the infant carrier LATE at 8 months old.

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Our First Philly Friends

We were lucky to visit with our "first Philly friends" today. It had been a couple of months since we last visited. I met Lori when I started teaching in Philadelphia and a couple of years later we both had babies within five months of each other. Katie and Savannah have been friends since day one and it is wonderful to watch them embrace their friendship even when they go months without seeing each other. It is funny that they both became the oldest of three.

For the Big Girl Bed Record. . .

My fear of the girls not staying in their beds appears to be irrational. To my surprise, they seem to get the "not getting out of the bed rule." Savannah never got out of her bed, I mean never. I was sure I wouldn't be that lucky a second and third time. With the exception of the Adeline's third night in her big girl bed, both girls have stayed put. During that night, Adeline didn't really get out of her bed but she did crawl over her foot board into the chair and try to fall asleep there. The novelty seems to be wearing off. I still find Adeline walking all over her bed and Lila throwing her Bunny off the bed which requires me to retrieve it for her but staying IN the bed doesn't seem to be a problem. Please God, don't let me jinx this.

All in all, I am really pleased with the transition. It has been fairly low stress and the girls have enjoyed showing off their big beds to everyone that comes to our house. The best part in all of this is that I can climb into their beds and snuggle them. One morning Lila woke up early and I slipped in bed with her and enjoyed a long snuggle. Is there any better way to start my day?

I was taking pictures of Savannah after I put the twins down when I heard a mumbled, "Picture please Mommy." It took me a minute to figure out what Lila was saying with her "binky speech" but I finally got it. These are the faces that were waiting for me. They don't necessarily look tired, do they?

Three Years Ago

Three years ago this evening, was the worst night of my entire life. I was paralyzed with hurt and fear. My unborn baby was dying inside me. My world stood still. My heart, my faith, and my hopes were broken. Little did I know that it was the first day of 29 very long, yet miraculous days. Today's date, marks the beginning of Miss Adeline Belle's journey.

I encourage you to go back and read last year's post as it gives a sense how miraculous Adeline's life truly is. Click here.

Fast forward three years!

Adeline woke up for the first time in her big girl bed. We hung out as a family in her room for about an hour this morning. Adeline was super affectionate and giving loves and laughs to all. She accompanied us to Dunkin' Donuts and later helped me work in the flower beds. After her afternoon nap, I was laying with her in her bed and she looked at my shirt. "Three bikes Mommy." I looked at Alex and he looked at me. How did she know that? We tested her with cars and sure enough, she knows her quantities up to three. Adeline ate a fantastic dinner (chicken- from fajitas, quesadilla, cantaloupe, grapes and a smoothie). We finished our evening outside where she showed off her skills on her tricycle, she even pedaled up the slope of the driveway. Finally, it was to bed. To our surprise, she went down in her big girl bed without any problems.

The day sounds like that of any other two/three year old. On the outside looking in, no one would guess that Adeline is anything other than your typical toddler. Sure, her walk is a little stiff and her words aren't in 5-7 word sentences but she is going strong!! I think what most people notice about our little Belle is her smile. She can stop a stranger in his tracks. She can light up the darkest of days. All this from a baby who was never supposed to be born alive.

Even in the middle of the terrible twos, I just can't get enough of my Belle. Adeline is full of life yet, at the same time, peace and calm. Somehow this little body can climb up into my lap with a "Hi Mommy," and give me the strength to do just about anything or erase any worry I have. She is physically little but her spirit is larger than life. I love how she still "fits" when I hold her and how her hand on my cheek or head on my shoulder instantly relaxes me and brings a smile to my face. I can't imagine who I would be had I not journeyed beside Adeline, certainly not the mother or woman I am today. I am forever changed and incredibly thankful for it.

I love you Miss Belly Belle.

Good Bye Cribs

I can't believe my girls are in big girl beds. Today was devoted to taking the cribs down and replacing them with their big girl beds that have been sitting in our basement for well over a year. I have been reluctant to transition them for a variety of reasons. I liked the idea of keeping them "caged" as long as possible and I have a VERY hard time saying goodbye to cribs for a final time. I can't believe we are moving on to raising our family instead of creating a family. Where does the time go?

Going into the transition, we were fairly confident that Lila Grace would do just fine with the change. She loves her sleep and is the first to tell you she is tired. We had reservations about putting Adeline in a bed. She is a night owl and is often found partying in her crib well after we have said goodnight. She also doesn't respond to, "lay down." She lays down and pops right up as if it is a game.

Regardless of their readiness, it was a necessary move. Lila has been crawling in and out of her crib for about a year. She knows she is not to crawl out unless I am in the room watching (got lucky on that one!). Adeline has recently joined her sister in "crib gymnastics" and is very unsafe (you can see her moves in the video). In order to keep the Adeline out of harm's way, we felt the bed was called for.

As I type this, both girls are asleep peacefully in their beds. They were so excited as we transformed their room. We were nervous the first night would be rough. Luckily, (it is only 8:40 p.m.) the bedtime routine went well. Actually, Daddy put them to bed without me even noticing. As expected, Lila went right to sleep but Adeline was up and jumping on her bed. I decided to put her in our sitting room which still houses a crib. It was our plan all along. Once she fell asleep, I transferred her to her big girl bed.

We will see how the morning goes. . .

Have you seen messier cribs??
The change. . . not so bad if I do say so myself. The monogrammed pillows from Aunt Natalie add the perfect finishing touch.

To File Away

This post is more for me than anyone. In case I don't remember Savannah's "loves" as she is getting ready to turn six. . .

The birthday wish list is as follows:

Stuffed animal horse - mommy and baby

Hard Plastic horse

Thumbelina and friends (Barbie dolls)

Mommy and Daddy bed for the her dollhouse

Bathroom for her dollhouse

Barbies - clothes, a doll with a pretty pink dress and Barbie's bike

Bean Bag chair

Hello Kitty scrapbook

Camera

Hello Kitty radio

Dinosaur sticker book

Dinosaur figurines


I must not forget that she really wants a Cars (the movie) birthday party. Leave it to my girl to love Barbies, dinos and Cars. I hope she never loses her authentic self. Not many girls play with dinosaurs or cars like she does. She has yet to see that Cars and dinosaurs are "boy toys" in our society. I love this about her. She has never played with baby dolls, gotten into dress up or been over the top girly. I can't deny that it is slowly creeping into our house as she spends more time at school and on playdates. For now, I want to preserve the innocent and "unaltered" Savannah. I know that she will be a very different girl a year from now. Sending her off to school this year is going to kill me.