Miss I Don't Like Dressing Myself. . .

was found coercing Adeline to pull her pants and socks off when asked to get ready for her nap.  Of course, Adeline thought it was great fun to pull Lila's clothes of her legs and obliged.  Please, don't let this be the start of manipulation.

Another Milestone??

The girls went for their last ride in the double stroller tonight.  Of course they insisted on sitting in their old car seats while attached to the stroller.  The twins found a way to get comfortable so Savannah, Daddy, and I took turns pushing them around the circle.

Somehow this has to count as a milestone reached.  My girls are on the verge of being stroller free.  Alex and I still find it hard to let go of our babies.

Mother's Day with the Horses

I volunteered with Adeline's theraputic riding barn for my Mother's Day activity.  The barn hosted a Kids Corner at a steeple chase event.  I went a couple hours early to help put together sock horses and then was helping kids put on the finishing touches.  It was pretty cute.  After the ponies were complete, there was a stick pony race which seemed to give Miss Grace trouble.

The weather was pretty cold and miserable which had us turning toward home before the steeple chase started.  We were able to take in some pony races which was pretty neat.  In the end, I just wanted to be surrounded by my girls.  I can't imagine what life would be like if I weren't their mother.  They are truly a gift and love them so!

Not quite the picture I got with the girls last year. . .

Gymnastics Anyone

The girls were fortunate to attend Max and Katie's birthday party. Katie is Savannah's first friend!! She is now seven - sniff sniff. It was great to see the girls connect so quickly, considering that they rarely see each other. I swear that there is some special magic between the two of them. I hope it continues for years to come.

Here are some pictures from the party. It was held at a local gymnastics venue. The swinging harness was the favorite. Savannah couldn't stop laughing and I couldn't stop worrying that she was going to crash into the ceiling. Oddly enough, Lila wouldn't try it but Miss Adeline hopped in and LOVED it. She kept saying, "Push me higher."

Here is a clip of the harness swing. I stopped the video just when the girl was confident enough to rocket Adeline up to the ceiling. Why don't they make these things for adults?

There is a Difference

Too often, I am faced with people questioning me about how Adeline's development is behind that of typical three year olds.  Yes, Miss Belle looks pretty good when you meet us on the street but under that social wave and priceless grin are various developmental delays.  It is really hard to explain unless you spend time with her.  I feel compelled to make sure others get that there is a difference.  Adeline is who she is and her road is much harder than that of her sisters.  She deserves credit for what she accomplishes when it is that much harder.  She is doing really well and making more progress than I ever dreamed.  I am so proud.  But. . . there is a difference.

Here is a clip of the girls jumping over cardboard bricks.  Adeline had a really hard time sticking the landing without the use of her outstretched hands on the floor.  Lila, jumped much higher than I ever thought she could.  Savannah put Adeline's in a tizzy because Adeline thought Savannah fell when she landed. (Another new addition to her sensory issues is that Adeline always thinks people are falling which really stresses her out.)  What I love the most is how Savannah and Lila were cheering Adeline on and how Adeline reciprocated for Lila.

Square Dancing

Savannah's school had a family square dance. I was skeptical at first but it turned out to be much fun. Alex (country pirate??) was volunteering behind the grill which left me with the girls and tunes from a fiddle. The caller did a great job of getting everyone involved.  Savannah started out partnered with her friend Ella, but was partnered with others as the night went on.

Lila and Adeline had a good time with Mommy on the dance floor. It appears that we were quite a show as the comments came pouring in once I stepped off the dance floor. I had a lot of fun with them. In the clip, they aren't during much because they didn't quite feel at ease without me there to dance with them.  Lila gave up dancing before the end and put her efforts into Ella's brother.  They were too cute!

Occupational Therapy

Miss Lila recently qualified for OT services again. Her Special Instructor and classroom teacher have both commented on her clumsy ways.  Let's just say Lila leaps before she thinks!  She also could use some help in the fine motor department.  She is drawing different shapes etc. and can write her name (thank goodness it is only four letters) but her pencil grasp is immature.  Cutting also lags behind that of her peers.

Since I have no idea how to help Lila lift herself out of her clumsy ways, or rein her into cutting and drawing activities with me when she would rather be running or jumping, I am thrilled to have OT on board again.  Lila performs well for her therapists, just not mommy or daddy. 

Well, Lila was evaluated in February and qualified for OT at the beginning for March and. . . hasn't seen an OT yet.  Budget cuts, the economy, and many other factors play into overloaded therapists that can't increase their case load.  Do I care?  NO!  My kid qualifies for the services and she should be getting them.  When complaining to the case manager about her lack of follow through and persistence, I am told that I should be reassured that Lila will get all the services that are due her.  Her OT will make up for the lost weeks.  My complaint is that she doesn't have an OT and she needs the help now, not four months from now.  We need not wait until Lila has formed any more bad habits will with pencil grasp or fallen more behind in her other areas of concern. 

So here it is.  A piece of my life that sets me apart from many other moms.  I am not trying to figure out what T-ball team to sign up for, or what playdate to plan for the twins.  I am spending hours going back and forth on the phone with the county while trying to manipulate my schedule so that Adeline's OT can serve Lila.  (I begged and she was willing.  God Bless her!)  Yes, that required moving one of Lila's speech therapy sessions and  changing Adeline's bus schedule. 

At the end of the day, I feel that I spend countless hours driving, following up with therapists, and worrying if it is all worth.  It has to be right??